You Did It!

Now, imagine me beside you, doing a silly happy dance on your behalf!

Now that you are in a different place from where you were when you started the course, you can probably tell that Embrace Your Messy Brilliance in 30 Days isn’t a one-time kind of thing. Come back anytime you like, and continue to uncover your messy brilliance when things start to feel out of balance and you notice you’re no longer spending your energy wisely.

Life is a journey—one that presents plenty of setbacks and roadblocks, as well as opportunities for joy and transformation. We always have the choice to figure out whether we’re going to live out the “same old same old” or try on something new.

Remember, there is no right or wrong—just a lifetime of learning about how to customize your life to the beautiful woman you are rather than squeezing into some prefabricated self-help mold.

No matter where you are and whether or not you’ve applied any of the exercises and tools of this course to your life, you’ve absolutely exercised courage and wisdom to get through both the obstacles and triumphs of your life. Like many women, you might not necessarily feel like you’ve gotten the hang of it all, but that’s not really the point, anyway. I honor all the twists and turns it’s taken to get you here, and I want you to do the same.

Here are some more ideas for putting the tools in this course into action in your life:

For the coming week: Refer to Days 4, 15, and 22 of this course, where you explored what makes you come alive, what you most value, and what you most wish for. Looking at all of these things together, come up with a single word that defines your joy, values, and desires. Post that word somewhere where you will see it every day. (Hint: Mine is Shine!)

For the coming month: Revisit your favorite exercises from the last 30 days and make a plan to incorporate them into your daily life. Remember to customize them so that they continue to fit the woman you are. Commit to integrate them into your life on a daily, weekly, or monthly basis. Do this by plugging these exercises into your calendar and make them recurring dates. Integrating joy into our lives requires that we be proactive, and anything we can do to make that process easier for ourselves will take us much further than we can imagine.

For the coming year: Come back to this course over and over again. Every year around your birthday, return to it to see how you have changed, and to identify new or old places or patterns where you are still burying your messy brilliance.

All of this will give you something that is an all-too-rare commodity these days: an understanding of how kickass you really are. Because you can never have enough of that!

May you continue to weave your brilliant messiness and magical randomness into your life from here on out.

Big Love,

P.S. I would love to hear how this course has changed your life. Email me at to share your experience!